“Il faut chercher en soi-meme autre
chose que soi-meme pour pouvoir
se regarder longtempsâ€
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Migration is a colossal experience. By migration I mean leaving for an other country, an other continent, with the intention to settle definitely in the new environment. It means cutting the own roots and growing new ones in a totally different situation. The old habits, the old ways, the language in which one feels at home, will be no longer valid. It may cause homesickness, nostalgia or worse. That hurts. And it all has to be replaced by something else and totally different. That’s hard. Probably the new neighbour will always recognize your accent. Only by the time you are able to decipher the subtle codes of the new language, gestures and humour, you really can feel at home. You will have arrived at your new identity at last. But still it will be a blurred identity.
This does not apply to, for instance the almost 150.000 Indonesian nationals who are living in the Netherlands at this moment. They may suffer from a kind of homesickness too , but the majority of them will move on ( and back home eventually). Mainly their identity is Indonesian student abroad or Multinational Indonesian – that is: employed by a Multinational organization. Up to this moment I did not notice any major identity crisis in their ranks.
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It’s different for those who came from far away to stay. For instance: in the Netherlands an awkward discussion is going on about those migrants who came from Turkey and North Africa. They usually were male workers who – in the sixties and seventies- came from rural areas and had to cope with work in a factory and a modern, secular society. Yet they stayed, married a girl from back home and raised an (often) large family. But like earlier the Irish or Italians in the US, their ties with the country of their origin never really broke. And it didn’t happen in the next or third generation either: now the grandsons and granddaughters also have a kind of double – and often confusing-identity. A lot of them feel ill at home in Amsterdam, Rotterdam or Utrecht, but they don’t fit in the Turkish or Moroccan society either. They have a hard time, especially now. Mainly because of their religion, which of course is conspicuously different from the traditional ones in Western Europe.
But there’s yet an other example of migration that has had a wide impact. On the immigrants themselves as well as on the country.
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Because in the late forties and the fifties about 250.000 people migrated from ( or: were thrown out of) Indonesia. Most of them were “Indo’sâ€; Dutch nationals of racial mixed origin, who never before had seen Holland. By now their recreational powers has more than doubled their numbers: 585000. And some of these did make the headlines.
To mention a few: the Tielman Brothers have now officially been pronounced the first Rock’Roll band in the country,Simon Tahamata was a winger in the FC Ajax as well in the Dutch National Squad, Marion Bloem became one of quite a number of Indo authors in national literature,Willem Nijholt is a renowned performer and actor,while Wibi Soerjadi is a very successful (classical) pianist. They seem to prove how well this group has blended into society. However..
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That’s only part of the story. Still they have their own organizations, their own magazines, their own culinary culture, their own habits of sociability. And all that refers to Indonesia. They often are distinguishable from others in the country. By their features. But also because they choose to be. They practice a slightly different lifestyle. Their identity usually is not typically Dutch. It’s kind of a two ways identity. For the old folks that may mean they cherish parts and pieces of “tempo doeloeâ€. But the younger generation shows a genuine interest in the RI. A lot of them prove to be still tied to the “country of origin†– that is where the roots of their [(great) grand]parents are. It’s an interest which has been recognized by the media. You can even see it reflected in the national newspapers and TV channels at large; compared to other European countries news from Indonesia makes the headlines relatively often. The majority of which unfortunately is no good news. One might argue whether the the ailing Suharto is good or bad news. But while the imminent death of the ex dictator was in all leading European newspapers, only the NRC had it as a major report on the front page a few days ago.
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For some the double identity leads to even more drastic moves. They leave Europe to return to the father-or motherland of their ancestors. Eventually a few even succeed to make the grade – up to a point. That’s what seems to happen to Rebecca Reijman (22 y.o.) According to the Indo magazine “Moesson†she made it to the charts in Indonesia with her CD “Kata Hatiâ€. She ‘is still halfhearted on whether to go and live in Jakarta or do it the Anggun way ( who has her career in Indonesia, but lives in Paris). Adjie Massaid (41 y.o.) on the other hand is permanently living in Jakarta and became an Indonesian national. Over 12 years he has been in the Indonesian entertaining business and now is member of parliament. The third one I know of is “Bule gila†actor Herman Langebroek (27) also known as Harry Bond jr. As bad or crazy white guy in movies or series he earns a very decent living.
Probably mass migration will always have these characteristics. It will be tough to fit in the new society. Gradually the push factors ( reasons why one went away) will vanish. The pull factors (why one has chosen this particular country) will always be taken for granted. But the alluring call of the country of origin will never fade away. Therefore those who moved away will keep a soft spot for the old country, whatever the reason of departure. For most of them this will turn out in their choice of a slightly different lifestyle and and a slightly unique and deviant identity in the new country. They are the ones who could be at the core of mutual good relations between the new and the old country.
And some may want to return. And get happy. Or, maybe, experience a disillusion, if the new realities don’t match the Utopia they created in their minds.
1) This is the title of a classic in Dutch literature: Eddy du Perron: “Het Land van Herkomstâ€. This autobiographical novel is about an “Indo†born and bred in Indonesia, who forever stays a kind of stranger in Europe and has this lingering feeling of being incomplete -which in turn is linked to this longing for the tropical country he left. (The quote in the book is by a French author, André Malraux).
Update: This is what I read about being an immigrant in an article in “Daily Kos”. It proves once more it’s not a life for a softy.
good observation
jer. By the way Rebecca’s song is not Kata Hari but Kata Hati. Never heard about her before though.. but than again with good voice and face that is considered beautiful, Rebecca has a good future ahead in the large indonesia market
Hemm…about country of origin…eventually, like you’ve said, we always have a soft spot for the country where we were born and have grown up. I guess in the end, when you actually do acknowledge that you haven made the decision to live in that new country it will make live easier (for whatever reason). Because when that happens, one then takes full responsibility to do whatever it takes to be useful in long run in that society. And I do think this is one of the main reason why 2nd and 3rd generation of Indische or Indonesian migrants are able to settle better in the NL. That is, compared to some Turkish or Marokkans migrants.
What I see at least in these 2nd generation immigrants, the longing for Indische or Indonesian ways (to do things, the food, the magazine) are merely a way to remember that piece of the group memories of what and who they were. One thing that I actually find very amusing to see, is the way that they are always perceived as a positive influence for the NL. Meanwhile actually…as migrants…they spread those fever for nasi goreng, bami goreng, rendang, sayur lodeh, soto ayam & pisang goreng. Making sure that the origin food of NL such as oliebollen and stampot have to work extra hard to remain the number one choice in NL
And the 3rd generation hehehe, I guess, is indeed triggered with nice stories about Indonesia from their grandparents or parents. Go to Indonesia to explore…some coming back with a mixed feeling that it is indeed not an utopia, such as what their parents remembered. But some find their time their great and do see the opportunities in Indonesia for their future. Like Rebecca. In the NL, it would be hard for her to get a record label. Not because she’s not talented but the competition in this market is tough. But in Indonesia, aface like Rebecca’s, will easily sell. But a pretty face, just like in other countries, without talent competition will be hard. Also Herman Bule Gila; in Indonesia being foreigner and Caucasian, there’s a stigma that you belong to certain social class. Just to give an example, to see a Herman running around as a tricycle driver for instance would be mind-boggling.